You are not alone. As many as 40% of police officers have abused their intimate partner or child. Authorities mostly ignore the widespread violence. But help is out there. My award-winning book “Police Wife” explains why so many officers are abusive, what women can do to increase their safety and how we can help them. "This is a book that should be given to the wife or girlfriend of every single male police officer": Sgt. Amy Ramsay (Ret’d), PhD